Wednesday, March 24, 2010


ESCAPING???

One is always crammed with reasons in life. We win and embrace the entire recognition our self but at our failure there are innumerable persons we think are accountable for it. They are our “parents”, “friends”, “colleagues”, “neighbours”, “acquaintances” and if nothing else then “Destiny”. I always agree to when it is said that if it’s not in your destiny you don’t get it. But can we blame the destiny wholly? No, we just can’t. To our failure, there must have been points where we would have gone wrong. There must have been instances which required our 100% but we didn’t give it. There are times when we are striving hard or hardest to achieve our goal. We spend our most precious years to make the dream come true. We ignore our family, friends, loved ones and almost everyone on this earth and we see only THAT thing as a bird’s eye that is to be attacked and achieved. We have sleepless nights and a thronged mind.

And one day we get worn-out of combating for our most wanted dream. We think it’s better to change direction. We don’t feel the ignition in ourselves to stand-up fight for it anymore. And finally we are on a different track. A new beginning altogether or may be the same old path that was left by us. And we always have reasons of retreat from our confronting course. We try to blend in the then existing stage, try to budge our mind from our strongest desire. And we again encounter new and old chapters in our lives which give their judgment on our performances. Still there exists a sense of dissatisfaction of soul. We tell and make understand our heart and mind that “No, what I was fighting for can’t be brought to fruition”.

But years after on some good day we feel why we backed out? Why we didn’t make it? Why did I shelve? We are filled with regret. Finally we realize that we need to strongly fix on, to convert dreams into reality, for our every verdict further arranges a series of episodes for us. We cannot fail, we just cannot be frail either.

We need to Wake up, struggle, achieve and never back out.