"Helplessness brings Serenity"
It is painful to see the one you love in despair.. it is painful to see that the one you adore is fighting for something he doesn’t wants you to be a part of.. it hurts to feel helpless.. it hurts to feel powerless to affect the cause.. the hardest feelings is to feel helpless.. it makes heart cry like an infant.. the feeling prick every inch of soul and kills.. it breaks from inside.. the strength seems to be washing away.. it brings anger, irritation, distrust, isolation.. then it forces you to ask

Why am I unable to do anything?
Why am I not a part of it?
Why can’t I change everything for his good?
Why can’t I protect him from uncontrollable control?

Did he lost trust in me?
Why the most deserving is in agony?
Why is the GOD’s favourite child put to the callous testing?

But you are helpless to answer the self asked questions because if you would had the answers the questions wouldn't had been raised inside.. Life is a court and you are put on trial every day by unidentified foe or identified ally.. Very less times in life you feel helpless to help others because very less times you love and are loved and it makes you go weak in knees to bring in a change.. a change of happiness..

Try and love the feeling of helplessness.. embrace it once and you’ll realize that it is not as bad as you thought.. And thus this helplessness brings in a change.. it releases lots of energy which brings patience, serenity, tranquility, self control and power to face and manage any situation in life.. it makes you more strong to bear the brunt of problems.. it erases the guilt which you carry for being helpless.. and you think of ways to wipe out the sorrows from life.. you become extremely ignited to burn away the grief and heartache.. you find successful ways to alter the situation.. you start feeling a part by making a difference.. you are able to protect.. you are able to bring the GOD’s favourite child out of the mess.. and you realize that you are no longer helpless to control, to manage.. the more you practice embracing helplessness rather than crying over it, the less you will be victimised and inculcate in yourself a power to love and give..

Bad time is like dawn and dusk, it comes and goes.. what is left behind is faith, belief, understanding, patience, hope and Love.. its makes you a better person with serenity..

And you win back everything you thought you lost as “When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Gets Going”