Read an article some time back, would like to share here, as the questions raised there were the ones those are in everybody’s heart and mind. The difference is, at times they come out and most of the times they are buried inside un raised and unanswered. They are figured out as simple ones but are profound indeed.

1. Whom should one regard as the most important person?
2. What should be deemed to be the most important work or action in life?
3. Which should be taken to be the most opportune moment in life?

Before answering let me interrupt here. I am a “Sai Baba” devotee and trust him blindly. There isn’t any truth except him. Trust me “Baba” is miraculous. I never trust the stars; I trust the one who made them. Iv read some religious books and read about Baba’s magic. Although I agree to all his preaching’s but can’t implement all of them in my life.
Now, why iv mentioned this here, you will learn it later.
Ok, let me answer the questions now.

1. One should treat the person before one as the most important one. It implied that the person confronting you deserves to be treated properly and with due regard so that S/he returns fairly satisfied after meeting you.
2. The most important work or undertaking is the one that you have in hand right now. Put your heart, mind and soul into finishing the task.

3. On coming to the question as to which is the most important time, the present moment should be treated as the most opportune one. It is the meeting point of 2 eternities- the vast past that is gone and the unknown future.

All the answers seemed to be so simple as if driving on a road as smooth as butter but it is hard to implement.

Somebody asked a last question that if success was the most important thing in life? And I was as pleased as I can with the answer. It goes like, “Success is indeed a man’s chief business in life, but remember that Achievement is above Success and Reputation above Celebrity Status”.

New Year is just a day away, lets all make it a point that we keep in mind the words to the last question (as I myself cannot go completely by the answers to the first 3 questions :-) ) and lead our lives accordingly.

Another Day, another Month, another Year, another Smile, another Tear, another Winter, A Summer too, But there will never be Another You. Be Honest, Be Wise..

WISH YOUR NEW YEAR COUNTDOWN BE FILLED WITH TONS OF LOVE, HAPPINESS AND SUCCESS.
GOD BLESS US ALL.

BELIEVE YOU COULD TOUCH THE SKY

Happiness doesn’t need any reason or occasion. It is there inside you and you get it when you feel it. Neither there is anyone for the cause of your distress nor for your joy. Its only one person for the charge of your joy, of your bliss and that’s “YOU”. Your parents cannot create happiness in your lives, your spouse cannot, your children cannot, they can only “SHARE” your happiness and the same way your sorrows too. There is a black board or say “blank board” in front of you, just with your name written. You have to write your own story. You are the architect of your own destiny. You are the creator and you are the destroyer. Feel contented. Love yourself. Love everything you can. Love everyone you can. And you will get it back. You live, you study, you earn, you marry, you become parent, (all to be happy), you give and then you expect something in return and when you don’t get it, something in your soul cries. Don’t expect, just believe that when you are giving, releasing energy in high spirits while you are happy in your heart; you are on the path of receiving automatically which again brings you happiness. So where did you started from? You started from being happy yourself. Feel happy about yourself and people will be happy because of you. 

LOVE YOURSELF AND TRUST YOURSELF.. AND SKY IS NOT THE LIMIT..

Be Blissful, Be Wise.       

"Helplessness brings Serenity"
It is painful to see the one you love in despair.. it is painful to see that the one you adore is fighting for something he doesn’t wants you to be a part of.. it hurts to feel helpless.. it hurts to feel powerless to affect the cause.. the hardest feelings is to feel helpless.. it makes heart cry like an infant.. the feeling prick every inch of soul and kills.. it breaks from inside.. the strength seems to be washing away.. it brings anger, irritation, distrust, isolation.. then it forces you to ask

Why am I unable to do anything?
Why am I not a part of it?
Why can’t I change everything for his good?
Why can’t I protect him from uncontrollable control?

Did he lost trust in me?
Why the most deserving is in agony?
Why is the GOD’s favourite child put to the callous testing?

But you are helpless to answer the self asked questions because if you would had the answers the questions wouldn't had been raised inside.. Life is a court and you are put on trial every day by unidentified foe or identified ally.. Very less times in life you feel helpless to help others because very less times you love and are loved and it makes you go weak in knees to bring in a change.. a change of happiness..

Try and love the feeling of helplessness.. embrace it once and you’ll realize that it is not as bad as you thought.. And thus this helplessness brings in a change.. it releases lots of energy which brings patience, serenity, tranquility, self control and power to face and manage any situation in life.. it makes you more strong to bear the brunt of problems.. it erases the guilt which you carry for being helpless.. and you think of ways to wipe out the sorrows from life.. you become extremely ignited to burn away the grief and heartache.. you find successful ways to alter the situation.. you start feeling a part by making a difference.. you are able to protect.. you are able to bring the GOD’s favourite child out of the mess.. and you realize that you are no longer helpless to control, to manage.. the more you practice embracing helplessness rather than crying over it, the less you will be victimised and inculcate in yourself a power to love and give..

Bad time is like dawn and dusk, it comes and goes.. what is left behind is faith, belief, understanding, patience, hope and Love.. its makes you a better person with serenity..

And you win back everything you thought you lost as “When the Going Gets Tough, the Tough Gets Going”

Reality Show a Threat??

Now isn’t it outlandish that the politicians of our country are frittering time on proving “Sach ka Saamna”- a reality show as a threat to Indian culture. Are the most delicate and significant problems of our country like poverty, unemployment, uneducation, corruption, terrorism dead?? No, they still exist and will keep on existing till they’ll realize that these all require immediate actions rather than devil's advocating on a reality show. After all it is a show. The contestants are not hesitant of coming to the show and revealing their inner most secrets and truth to their families or audience then how does it makes a difference to the politicians?? Why are they afraid of hearing the reality? Or do they fear of being called to the show someday and reveal their pasts? or they fear of disclosing their deeds which they had concealed to be under the cloud forever? Will it bring a blot to their character if they are called upon??

“Gay Sex” is decriminalized. Is it not a matter of shame when they talk openly about it? Do our politicians find it ethical and cultured? Is it not hurting our elder generation or spoiling our present generation? Yes it is!! But they’ll defend it.. Why?? Because it is “MATTER OF CONVENIENCE” for our politicians. When something puts their dignity on stake, things become unethical lest everything is ethical and cultured. A show should be taken just as a show. The Delhi High Court on Wednesday said “moral policing” was not its job and advised those offended by the TV show ‘Sach Ka Saamna’ to switch off their TV sets if it offends their sensibilities. Now there couldn’t be any better solution for our dear politicians :-)

TRANQUILITY OF SOUL

What does it takes to be at “PEACE” in life? When is it that one says it ho himself that “I am really happy today”? When we win? When we earn pounds? When we become an I.A.S.? When we are loved? When we get married? NO!!! These are all materialistic things that makes us contended for a while. But the fact is that it is not lasting. Happiness and sorrows are like dawn and dusk which comes and goes. Can anybody really stay in the nebulous clouds of happiness forever? When we are in the midst of the most horrible tribulations of our lives, when nothing seems to be working, what is it that works for us? Saves us? Are they the one who call themselves our friends? Is it our success? Is it our million pounds? Or is the treasured love of our life?

YES!!! To an extent they are… as they are the reformed blessings of “The Master”. Master - the creator, the destroyer, the benefactor, the taker, omnipresent entity of this world. Only he is ubiquitous and chaste. By his command one attains pleasure, glory and greatness. It is he who blesses & forgives or can make one wander aimlessly. The one who understands his command does not speak in ego. The world is hungry and the hunger of the hungry is not appeased even by piling up loads of worldly goods. These worldly goods are the mandatory duties on us which cannot be escaped. When we perform them at our best that is the moment we feel connected to the Master. Beside performing our duties one must reminisce “HIS” name. Only MASTER is true and true is his infinite love. By remembering him, pain is sent away & something comes to home and to our heart !!! That is “INNER PEACE”!!